SURVIVAL
Bad things happen to everyone. It's just the way of life. There is nothing anyone can do to avoid that. But who you are as an individual, is determined by how you choose to process and handle those atrocities. Usually in the face of an adversity, you are given two options: you can either cry over it or get over it. I prefer a third option. I whine and cry over it while getting back up. This gets all the sadness out of my system while I try to find a solution to my problem. If you let every little thing break you in life, there will be no life for you to enjoy. Shit happens - so what? It's not like your life was a picnic before that. There is nothing you cannot get over or fix in life. Without a solution, there is no problem. So stop beating yourself down for every bad thing that happens to you. Now, sometimes we are unable to get over some things mostly because we feel insecure and lost. In such a situation it becomes necessary to understand oneself. Learn to forgive y...